(Behind this smile is a weary mom struggling to make it...)
Over decaf lattes I would tell her:
(This was obviously a pretty good nap...)
4) You can't hold, rock, or cuddle your little one too much. They won't be spoiled by you, but they will be comforted and assured of how much you love them. Who cares if they fall asleep in your arms instead of the crib? They won't do it when they're 18...and frankly, you'll miss it.