Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Mealtime...A Civilized Occasion...

Mealtimes in our household are quite civilized. A place where napkins are folded neatly in laps, conversation is in hushed tones, correct utensils are used, and items are passed politely.

Oh, sorry, I was daydreaming for a bit. Mealtime is more like this:


There is food in the hair, food on the floor, reminders of vegetables to be eaten and napkins to be used. "Please take a bite of this." "You'd better not spit that out." "Turn around in your chair." "Don't feed Stella."
While it is a long, sometimes painful, process, it's become a place to connect. A place for laughter and conversation. A place to hear funny stories from a four-year-old. A place to answer LOTS of questions and start traditions. We're making messes and memories around here.

3 comments:

Jayne Stark said...

Love Brent's Superman cup!

Nikki said...

Brent's mom collects the hero cups and even has a few muppets etc. from when her boys were growing up. I love that she still has those!

Jennifer Handsaker said...

Oh my, I laughed because we're there! I remember when I used to look forward to long dinners, meaning ful conversations and QUIET! Now, meals are just functional and I'm cleaning up while I eat!!